I recently found this thought-provoking article by Dr. Jim Taylor about kids and sports over at the Huffington Post. Couldn't agree more with Dr. Taylor. Here's an excerpt along with a link to the full article:
"As any parent of young athletes knows, having your children
participate in sports can be a real hassle. There's getting them to and
from practice and games, making sure they have the necessary equipment,
ensuring they still make school a priority, and, for many parents,
writing the checks to keep your kids in the game can be really
unpleasant. Our two daughters are alpine ski racers on the Sugar Bowl
Ski Team in Northern California and having to train and compete hours
from our home near San Francisco adds another level of complexity. But
whatever sport your children play, the challenges remain mostly the
same, whether your kids are soccer players, golfers, gymnasts, or what
have you.
I admit that I can be a bit of a taskmaster with my girls on those
morning when they're dragging their feet. I will also admit that this
'forced' approach is a source of some irritation for my wife who
believes (as I do to a lesser degree) that kids need downtime to rest
and recovery from their busy days filled with school and other
extracurricular activities.
My wife and I are also generally in agreement on not pressuring our
children to do anything beyond their school and home responsibilities.
We believe in allowing them to find and follow their own passions and
interests (even if our girls have few at this point in their lives). At
the same time, given that I was an internationally ranked ski racer
"back in the day" and have a tremendous passion for skiing, I must also
admit that I want our daughters to grow up to be good skiers and I want
us to share the life of a skiing (and perhaps ski racing) family.
I began to ponder more deeply what I wanted our girls to get out of
their sports experience and I realized that, though I do want them to
become good skiers, there were far more important things I wanted them
to gain from it that they can't readily get in other parts of their
lives. In my musings, I came up with Four Reasons Why Your Kids Should
Play Sports."
Read more at: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/dr-jim-taylor/4-reasons-why-your-kids-s_b_9401912.html
Also, here's an interesting blog to follow about how adults struggle to find their place in youth sports:
http://youthsportsparents.blogspot.com/
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